Averse to change

I know very well in my last post, I wrote about ‘Change’ and it didn’t exactly go as intended. But in this post am going to specifically talk about people who are averse to change. I am talking about those stereotyped personalities who think especially since they didn’t discover something on their own; it’s not worth looking at it. It actually goes to the self styled individuals who are ‘Spoilt’ brats in their own individualistic sense and make no attempt to discover the universe beyond their own intellectual capability; those who remain confined to their self belief and are not open to anything “defying conventions”.

God really help such individuals.

Am not against people as such, but am fighting against those people who Refuse Change… people who do not want to be educated, who want to live in their own self defined world which am sorry to say is a most of the time a pit full of garbage. I guess there’s a thin line between being stubborn and being stupid.

In the entire history of life in the planet, we learnt that the only way to grow is by adaptation. You adapt to changes around you. You look at bad things and try and make something good out of it, rather than proclaim it’s your right to ridicule.

I also do not expect everyone to adapt to everything that’s there to be adapted. I know you cannot see a drug addict and adapt to him and try and see good in it. Its to be dealt with common sense. The entire philosophy of change resides with common sense. There is nothing that will tell u what to do and what not to do except for your own judgment and that is where the entire thing falls back to. How do you judge between good and bad, required and not required? It is this distinction that makes you a better person than the other. Well the answer to that is education. From where do you get educated? By doing things differently than they were done before. And how do you know whats good and whats bad? By experience. Not all need to be yours. You can learn from others’ experiences as well.

Apart from that, I think all the scene between Irfan Khan and Konkana sen sharma at the rocks from the movie “Life in a metro” says it all. It is where Irfan tell her about his friend, who has bought a car and kept it in a garage and never taken it out. He says that his friend will take it out only when all the signals on the street are green. Konkana says ..wht an idiot.. if he never takes it out.. how will he ever know if signals are red or green. To this Irfan says,, exactly, how will u ever find out if its good or bad if you never took the car out. “Gaadi Bahar Nikalo” !!!

Have a great day !!!